Feature Article by Dr. Jeanine Austin, Ph.D
The Blues & Breast Cancer Prevention
by Dr. Jeanine Austin, Ph.D.
"Everybody wants to know
Why I sing the blues
Yes, I say everybody wanna know
Why I sing the blues
Well, I've been around a long time
I really have paid my dues."
BB King- Why I Sing the Blues
There appears to be a link that predisposes women who are depressed to breast cancer. If
you are depressed, even mildly blue, seek support and assistance. The level of depression
you experience will determine the type of treatment you seek.
In clinical diagnostic terms, there are different levels of depression. For people who are
having trouble functioning and who have suicidal ideation, they will want to seek
immediate medical help. The one wonderful thing about clinical depression is that it can
be treated.
For the purposes of this article and from the perspective of a life coach, I wish to write
about very mild, existential or even transitory blues. Often the blues come from feeling
that we want one set of experiences and in actuality we are experiencing another set of
circumstances. Whenever we feel "distance" between these reference points often results
in the blues.
For example, if we desire to be journalism superstar, a distinguished and prolific
household name, but we've just been turned down from the best journalism schools, the
hope for what we want and what we are experiencing may seem to be at opposite ends of
the continuum. The perceived disparity between these points of reference might tempt us
to sink into a mild depression.
When we concentrate on embracing the now and all of the experiences inherent in this
moment, we eliminate these two aforementioned reference points-including the distance
between them. We no longer think "I need this" but instead "I have this." We simply
allow ourselves to experience what is. If we want to develop even further, we may go so
far as to actually embrace what is.
My friend Lauren often reminds me that whatever my experiences are in my life that they
are perfect for me. In the moment I am often tempted to resist this idea. In hindsight she
is always right. When she affirms my life's perfection, she isn't being trite or flippant;
she is honestly observing that the organic patterns in my life are perfect for me. In my
mind's eye, the metaphoric imagery of perfect organic truth is represented by the sun. For
example, the sun is always shinning in the summer but it is we who turn our back on it,
not the other way around.
Most of us will relate to the experience of thinking ultimately we are glad that the
experience we wanted so desperately at the time (sometimes to the point of madness)
didn't turn out the way we wanted it to. Maybe it involved a job we really wanted and
didn't get that was a blessing in disguise. Perhaps it was a called off engagement that
with today's perspective we wonder, "What the heck was I thinking!" In those instances,
we were taken care of by the wisdom of Universe.
Several months ago, I was watching the movie Enter the Dragon starring Jeet Kune Do
master Bruce Lee. In the movie Lee affirmed that, "There is no opponent."
When we are feeling blue, we have perceived our opponent as an idea about how we
think things should be or how we think we should be. If we embrace what is, while
keeping our hearts and minds open for possibility and alignment, we will probably be
able to eliminate much of our low level angst.
Embracing what is doesn't mean doing anything that puts you in physical or emotional
danger or is soul numbing. However, if you stop fighting with or resisting things you
can't change, you might be able to chase those blues away.
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